Mechanical production of products, a carpenter, they can see a child for what is carved out of shape, know how to make the best use to train, rather than whatever the roots, all using the same methodology chop whittled a long round, over college entrance examination that sieve! "China Education and strategic studies expert, deputy director of City Board of Education Dr. Tian Wenjiang 9 guest" famous Forum, "a witty explain the secret of the success of their children's education, so that the parents benefited from the scene.


Personnel training: To apply anti-barrel theory


"Everyone is equal before the college entrance examination scores" is really fair? Tianwen Jiang said that this is a fair surface and form, but essentially is not fair, because it is based on a standard to measure the talent of all types of talents, like singing talents in voice culture, no matter how good the entrance examination to have breakthroughs? Only the same type of talent, go to than the "score" that can be called truly fair. Tianwen Jiang pointed out that the music a sense of good people, to learn English easily; a mathematical genius many people are afraid of English, and why? Because the human brain potentials are different ways of thinking are different, people's talents are different for different types of talent. "What kind of person is talent? Talents standard? More than 90% of the answer: scientists, professors; Peking University, Tsinghua graduates! This it?" Tianwen Jiang said, parents and educators in educational practice, there a serious bias, children's education is to use sports to "training of professional athletes" approach to pursue "national fitness campaign" - that is to use "training scientists" of the ways to build the "ordinary workers" so that the consequences of the practice of all educated are subject to "sports injuries." Tianwen Jiang said that parents should establish a pluralistic conception of qualified personnel. Everyone can develop talent, but not the same type of talent; "tomatoes grow on trees not Apple", each child has its own specialty, the world was created by the bias, so in personnel training, we should use anti-Barrel theory, too many parents only know that in the short board forced drill, but do not know the long board more effort, have the child's strengths dug up, because he was teaching. Tianwen Jiang pointed out that a small number of parents do not take responsibility for the child to education hopes were pinned in the schools, being their own walk away dispensers, this is erroneous, the family - school - society all three of their children growing up at different times the size of the role of is not the same, a child's education "can only be retail, not wholesale"!

Employment strange phenomenon: the "talent to the Jackass work"


Tian Wenjiang that type of diverse talents and specific standards is also varied. But there common standards - EQ and IQ. First-class talents of high emotional intelligence, intelligence quotient high: second-class talents of high emotional intelligence, IQ is not high; three-class caliber emotional intelligence is not high IQ is high; four-class caliber emotional intelligence is not high IQ is not high. Tian Wenjiang introduction, EQ and IQ cultivate the timeliness of different: EQ timeliness of education particularly strong, and generally following the completion of junior high school; and intelligence training is different does not matter a bit later. He cited an example that those of high IQ students with poor EQ is flat compared, while the entrance is a rectangular, in line with the shape of a flat-shaped sieve students were elected on the contrary that emotional intelligence is not high IQ talent on the ball have been eliminated, but the current 85% to 90% of the boss never went to college, and why we have "talent to work with the Jackass," the employment of the strange phenomenon, which shows location entrance there is a problem in this is the wrong selection of examination-oriented talents standard. Tian Wenjiang opposed to the prestigious universities, was admitted to champion children's education as the ultimate goal of life is a million meters of distance run, pay attention to lifelong learning, some parents take the whip in the exam-oriented education desperately smoking a child under the 100-meter sprint with the speed to run 10,000 meters, the potential of premature exhaustion of the child, and later also Pao Budong of 9900 meters. He said the first "Chinese scholar Workplace Survey" reluctantly revealed in 1977 to 2006 wiped out 30 years, the provinces champion and found no one in politics, business, scholarship, etc. outstanding talent.


Parent-child relationship: Zhuangqiong, loading stupid, loaded weak, malingering


Take children to develop into wealth, do not leave their children wealth. He believes in education the next generation, many people spoil, blind obedience than lions, tigers and other animals.


He suggested that parents educate their children are intelligent "four-loaded strategy": First Zhuangqiong to prevent the child to be prodigal, Zaiqiong not poor education, and then can not be rich rich kids! Too easy to get things people are not going to cherish, so that he used his hands to create a child to eat a child suffer a lifetime of wealth, to "help the child to be mentally rich, do not become the material of the rich." Loaded stupid Even if the parents can know the answer to the subject in front of the children also do not know, let the child alone to answer, do come out to commend the children, unable to do anything to a child can be encouraged to cultivate their children to learn self-confidence. Loaded weak, fostering children's self-reliance and sense of responsibility. Pretend to be sick, let your child know that you are human, will be sick, let him wash hands washing dishes, and the following articles for you to eat, to develop his love and grateful heart.